Sometimes you hate everybody around you. Sometimes everything people do begins to annoy you. Probably because you are just not comfortable with them around. Spending time alone in your room and staring at the walls feels much better than talking to people. All this happens when you are disturbed about something.
But hey! That is completely normal . Everybody goes through this phase someday. You just need to talk to someone about it. Tell them how you feel. Ask them not to give you advices but JUST listen to you. This helps a lot. My mom is the person I talk to when I am disturbed. I talk to Maria about it when mom is not around. Of course! What are best friends for, anyway? :p Hahah :p Talking about something that's disturbing you makes you feel much lighter. Things go wrong. Things go the way they are not supposed to. But we can't help it. Sometimes, you are put down in front of people even if it's not your fault. Sometimes, people dont trust you. Similar thing happened with Noor. Noor was a Sophomore student. She was good at studies and a little out-going student. She enjoyed her life to the fullest. She knows life is much more than just studies. She was very polite to people. A happy-go-lucky kinda girl. There was this lecturer who didnt like her(Even though she was good at studies). That one lecturer tortured her for an entire year. Now when she is in Second year, ALL the teachers hate her just because of THAT ONE LECTURER. Even if she did her work and assignments and experiments properly, they scolded her and her groupmates for no reason. This made her feel low. Too low. She thought of giving up. She knew whatever happens, those lecturers will never like her. Noor always tried her best to impress the lecturers but they always gave her THAT dirty look and made her feel like she is good for nothing. She always thought lecturers should understand her and give her one last chance to prove herself. But teachera are teachers. You know how Indian teachers are, right? Always supporting the "CHATUR" of the class and against the "RANCHO" (You'll get this if you've watched 3 idiots ;p ) . They want the RATTU TOTE (parrot) in the class :p
And here, first impression is the last impression. Noor took a little more time than the rest of her classmates to do the experiment. Her lecturer got too angry. Noor took so long cz she wanted to get the MOST accurate values. But the lecturers yelled at her for being a few minutes late. She thought Noor was a very spoilt girl and that she was doing gossip there. But Noor was discussing about the calculations with her groupmates. She fwlt really dishearted. All her hardwork was given a name of "GOSSIP". She felt like never attending the college again. This is what happens when teachers are mean to students.
Honestly, students don't like studying for those subjects whose lecturers are not good to them. Students love to work hard for their favourite teacher's subject. I know this post wont change the lecturers or the system but this is what Noor felt. A lecturer should maintain his/her dignity and shouldn't act like kids when they are in a professional course. This one little incident ruined her entire day. She didn't talk to anybody at home. All because of the people who dont value such gems. She knows she can do it but all she needs is a little encouragement. A little push. Nobody wants to be with people who understimates them. People love to be with someone who can encourage them in doimg good things. So whenever you need somebody to talk to, go ahead and talk yourself out. Tell them what you feel. Cz once you tell them bout your feelings, you will feel much, MUCH lighter. :)
But hey! That is completely normal . Everybody goes through this phase someday. You just need to talk to someone about it. Tell them how you feel. Ask them not to give you advices but JUST listen to you. This helps a lot. My mom is the person I talk to when I am disturbed. I talk to Maria about it when mom is not around. Of course! What are best friends for, anyway? :p Hahah :p Talking about something that's disturbing you makes you feel much lighter. Things go wrong. Things go the way they are not supposed to. But we can't help it. Sometimes, you are put down in front of people even if it's not your fault. Sometimes, people dont trust you. Similar thing happened with Noor. Noor was a Sophomore student. She was good at studies and a little out-going student. She enjoyed her life to the fullest. She knows life is much more than just studies. She was very polite to people. A happy-go-lucky kinda girl. There was this lecturer who didnt like her(Even though she was good at studies). That one lecturer tortured her for an entire year. Now when she is in Second year, ALL the teachers hate her just because of THAT ONE LECTURER. Even if she did her work and assignments and experiments properly, they scolded her and her groupmates for no reason. This made her feel low. Too low. She thought of giving up. She knew whatever happens, those lecturers will never like her. Noor always tried her best to impress the lecturers but they always gave her THAT dirty look and made her feel like she is good for nothing. She always thought lecturers should understand her and give her one last chance to prove herself. But teachera are teachers. You know how Indian teachers are, right? Always supporting the "CHATUR" of the class and against the "RANCHO" (You'll get this if you've watched 3 idiots ;p ) . They want the RATTU TOTE (parrot) in the class :p
And here, first impression is the last impression. Noor took a little more time than the rest of her classmates to do the experiment. Her lecturer got too angry. Noor took so long cz she wanted to get the MOST accurate values. But the lecturers yelled at her for being a few minutes late. She thought Noor was a very spoilt girl and that she was doing gossip there. But Noor was discussing about the calculations with her groupmates. She fwlt really dishearted. All her hardwork was given a name of "GOSSIP". She felt like never attending the college again. This is what happens when teachers are mean to students.
Honestly, students don't like studying for those subjects whose lecturers are not good to them. Students love to work hard for their favourite teacher's subject. I know this post wont change the lecturers or the system but this is what Noor felt. A lecturer should maintain his/her dignity and shouldn't act like kids when they are in a professional course. This one little incident ruined her entire day. She didn't talk to anybody at home. All because of the people who dont value such gems. She knows she can do it but all she needs is a little encouragement. A little push. Nobody wants to be with people who understimates them. People love to be with someone who can encourage them in doimg good things. So whenever you need somebody to talk to, go ahead and talk yourself out. Tell them what you feel. Cz once you tell them bout your feelings, you will feel much, MUCH lighter. :)
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