Time with people

Hey readers!
We live for a span
We have 365 days a year
50 odd weeks
Thousand of hours to deal with
Then we have some 50 odd people usually around
And yes 24 hours a day
out of which if you have all life processes going normal
then you will be sleeping 5-8 hours a day
Then 2-3 for the ESSENTIALS  like eating and all personal stuff
you 'll be left with 12 hours a day
Then if you are employed or a student
then 6 hours a day you can do nothing
but listen to your teacher or employer
and talk to your colleague in midst of it .
you can have 3-4 colleagues of such sought
Then while travelling you are more likely to talk to 2-3 people along
Then family , 4 members atleast?
Oh how could I forget the media ?
One can communicate with millions
by means of youtube, blog , facebook , twitter etc?
Then??? Whatsay?

Singledom

Being single is so free,
So lovely,
and
So lucky…that it has its own charm!
Do not rush in to getting married.. or even committed.
Even if folks and peers ask you,
Just tell them,
Everything has its own charm ...
You can't always smile when you are paired up or in a relationship.
Every lust has its own expiry date.
you see
Don't give up a thing just because you are bored up or lonely , the world and life has millions of things to engage you ...
Talk , read , blog , dance , counsel , go crafting , designing ... or just listen ?
Their are millions who just want people to listen to me, but its speak n speak n tell era...
Boredom and loneliness is only when you are jobless, out of something materialistic.
P.S. no break up or makeup story , just an opinion.
ENJOY SINGLEDOM!
Regards
have a nice day

Professionalism

Hello !

Topic for today - Does profession come in between your hobbies and interests ?

The other day I had a random discussion with my friend , the discussion was about a blog. I went on saying that a blogger from Pakistan whose blog I didnt like much .She was more diplomatic and thats how a blogger should be . But then I felt that once you begin to bother about diplomacy you egin to loose your spirit , your freedom to communicate . We live in a world where we have a right to speech , a right to bring up an opinion. Well, all this stuff aside. She was very regular when it came to blogging.My buddy justified her being an arts student a reason for her diplomacy and regularity .

Because students from non professional courses are left with more time at the end of the day to spend to write , to talk , to enjoy , to move about . Well , this is no justifiation actually . But , the society has got an outlook that people in professional courses are ALWAYS studying , working .

This generation I think is ultra swift to go multi tasking ! We sing , we dance  , we work , we cook , we chat , fb , tweet , blog, move around , rest and yes a day before the exam study to an extent that we are into inventing things that were only thought to be existing in the universe . Discovering various aspects of life in a quite unconventional way though .

At the end of the day professionalism to the maximum drags your OTHER activities and interest by 10 % . Well , thats what "I" think!

What most of us feel

Sometimes you hate everybody around you. Sometimes everything people do begins to annoy you. Probably because you are just not comfortable with them around. Spending time alone in your room and staring at the walls feels much better than talking to people. All this happens when you are disturbed about something.
But hey! That is completely normal . Everybody goes through this phase someday. You just need to talk to someone about it. Tell them how you feel. Ask them not to give you advices but JUST listen to you. This helps a lot. My mom is the person I talk to when I am disturbed. I talk to Maria about it when mom is not around. Of course! What are best friends for, anyway? :p Hahah :p Talking about something that's disturbing you makes you feel much lighter. Things go wrong. Things go the way they are not supposed to. But we can't help it. Sometimes, you are put down in front of people even if it's not your fault. Sometimes, people dont trust you. Similar thing happened with Noor. Noor was a Sophomore student. She was good at studies and a little out-going student. She enjoyed her life to the fullest. She knows life is much more than just studies. She was very polite to people. A happy-go-lucky kinda girl. There was this lecturer who didnt like her(Even though she was good at studies). That one lecturer tortured her for an entire year. Now when she is in Second year, ALL the teachers hate her just because of THAT ONE LECTURER. Even if she did her work and assignments and experiments properly, they scolded her and her groupmates  for no reason. This made her feel low. Too low. She thought of giving up. She knew whatever happens, those lecturers will never like her. Noor always tried her best to impress the lecturers but they always gave her THAT dirty look and made her feel like she is good for nothing. She always thought lecturers should understand her and give her one last chance to prove herself. But teachera are teachers. You know how Indian teachers are, right? Always supporting the "CHATUR" of the class and against the "RANCHO" (You'll get this if you've watched 3 idiots ;p )  . They want the RATTU TOTE (parrot) in the class :p
And here, first impression is the last impression. Noor took a little more time than the rest of her classmates to do the experiment. Her lecturer got too angry. Noor took so long cz she wanted to get the MOST accurate values. But the lecturers yelled at her for being a few minutes late. She thought Noor was a very spoilt girl and that she was doing gossip there. But Noor was discussing about the calculations with her groupmates. She fwlt really dishearted. All her hardwork was given a name of "GOSSIP". She felt like never attending the college again. This is what happens when teachers are mean to students.
                                             Honestly, students don't like studying for those subjects whose lecturers are not good to them. Students love to work hard for their favourite teacher's subject. I know this post wont change the lecturers or the system but this is what Noor felt. A lecturer should maintain his/her dignity and shouldn't act like kids when they are in a professional course. This one little incident ruined her entire day. She didn't talk to anybody at home. All because of the people who dont value such gems. She knows she can do it but all she needs is a little encouragement. A little push. Nobody wants to be with people who understimates them. People love to be with someone who can encourage them in doimg good things. So whenever you need somebody to talk to, go ahead and talk yourself out. Tell them what you feel. Cz once you tell them bout your feelings, you will feel much, MUCH lighter. :)