The magical stick to make friends.

The other day, I was about to slip just then a quick hand movement of a familial face caught hold of me and tadaaa... I didn't slip , I smiled , so did she . And then I felt there was something nice about her.Twas her helping hand that made me smile.
So , Don't have friends , go help somebody , that might help ! Just Kidding !

Clique has a cunning member

HEYLO PEOPLE !
Hurry burry time this is!
Why?
Its the test time for most of the students round the year.So whats the usually hot these days? Chairs and the mattresses of course the long study hours are probably going to heat the mattress and the chairs.

What goes on in this period of time?
Lets have a look

Harry was a cunning character who always fought with all his buddies before exams so that none could disturb him .
Harry was busy revising physics just then he realized that he needed his teacher's notes to score more but then he hardly saw any possibility of acquiring those notes . Why? Jerry was the only person who had them but unfortunately Harry was cold shouldered with Jimmy for about 4 months from now. Harry could not skip it because that portion of the syllabus had the potential of making him the topper of the semester.So , what would he do? Skip it? or go and say sorry ?

Harry found another way out . He called up Jerry and said that it was his ego that prevented him from talking to Jerry . Jerry could sniff some folly but then he trusted Harry . They broke the ice. Harry soon got the portion of physics and other potential tips and tricks to score more.

The results were out! Harry topped the list . Jerry and Harry lived happily ever after? Hahahah! No , there is someone left behind ....... Who? Mr. EGO. Who was on leave for about 2 months got back home to Harry.
Harry was the same till the examination dates of next semester were out!

During this semester , Harry had a brutal fight with Steve. So the rivalry began amongst the two parties . Harry prevented Jerry from talking to the guy. Soon jerry developed cold shoulders with Steve . Steve was relatively polite to Jerry earlier.
Exams.... On the first day , Steve was asked to sit next to Jerry . They didn't speak to each other. Jerry thought it was to keep up his friends self respect. But the very next day Steve was seated next to Harry who needed a little help to top the university . He was all smiles talking to Steve all long the exam and extracted the answer.

So, I would end up quoting - Exam me rivalry gayi tel (oil) lene.

Have a nice day!

Be a way ahead!

Here are some things you can begin doing as soon as today to begin the great brain tune up.

1) Eat Almonds

Almond is believed to improve memory. If a combination of almond oil and milk is taken together before going to bed or after getting up at morning, it strengthens our memory power. Almond milk is prepared by crushing the almonds without the outer cover and adding water and sugar to it.

2) Drink Apple Juice

Research from the University of Massachusetts Lowell (UML) indicates that apple juice increases the production of the essential neurotransmitte r acetylcholine in the brain, resulting in an increased memory power.

3) Sleep well

Research indicates that the long-term memory is consolidated during sleep by replaying the images of the experiences of the day. These repeated playbacks program the subconscious mind to store these images and other related information.

4) Enjoy simple Pleasures

Stress drains our brainpower. A stress-ridden mind consumes much of our memory resources to leave us with a feeble mind. Make a habit to engage yourself in few simple pleasures everyday to dissolve stress from your mind. Some of these simple pleasures are good for your mind, body and soul.

5) Fast for a day

Fasting cleans and detoxifies our body. It is known fact that heavy food not only causes stress on our digestive system but also drains our brainpower. Fasting relieves toxic emotions such as anger, grief, worry, and fears – before they accumulate and cause disease. By cleansing toxic emotions, fasting strengthens metal clarity with increases memory, concentration, creativity and insight.

6) Exercise your mind

Just as physical exercise is essential for a strong body, mental exercise is equally essential for a sharp and agile mind. Have you noticed that children have far superior brainpower than an adult does? Children have playful minds. A playful mind exhibits superior memory power. Engage in some of the activities that require your mind to remain active and playful.
Play scrabble or crossword puzzle, Volunteer, Interact with others, Start a new hobby such as blogging, reading, painting, bird watching, Learn new skill or a language

7) Practice Yoga or Meditation

Yoga or Meditation relives stress. Stress is a known memory buster. With less stress, lower blood pressure, slower respiration, slower metabolism, and released muscle tension follows. All of these factors contribute significantly towards increases in our brainpower.

8 ) Eat whole wheat

The whole wheat germs contain lecithin. Lecithin helps ease the problem of thehardening of the arteries, which often impairs brain functioning.

9) Develop imagination

Greeks mastered the principle of imagination and association to memorize everything. This technique requires one to develop a vivid and colorful imagination that can be linked to a known object. If you involve all your senses – touching, feeling, smelling, hearing and seeing in the imagination process, youcan remember greater details of the event.

10 ) Control your temper

Bleached food, excess of starch or excess of white bread can lead to nerve grating effect. This results in a violent and some time depressive behavior. Eat fresh vegetables. Drink lots of water and meditate or practice yoga to relieve these toxic emotions of temper and violent mood swings.

Clique- the friend circle

Once in a college you are initially obsessed with your books . But this often turns out to be a fad . When everybody is studying it then why not me ?

Then the secondary concern often is making friends , forming a friend circle called clique .

People call you a lonely / arrogant personality if you are a lonesome free personality

You are more like a romeo if you have just one good friend . You are not a social person that way.

When you mingle with everybody .You are tagged as gypsy , a vagabond or a gossip magazine.

• Some people are really keen in being friends with . They like to mingle with people of same strata , similar thoughts .
• Then there people who want to mingle with the rich and the influential , so that they can get their jobs done .
• How can I miss the glamorous! All they do is dress well, study sometimes too...
• Nature wise the loud, blatant characters often go for the calm , serene characters ! Both calm people gel well too. So basically calm going personality are the most wanted ones.
• There are use and throw friends too... I mean once you need to reach an authority , you need that person .Later, take his /her easy.
• Eye candies !Not really beautiful , but carry themselves way too good. Well once they are accessible , its okay . Otherwise gossip , rumors! They are pleasure to watch . Everybody has an eye on them, their activities last but not the least the way they dress themselves up.
• A studious one ! Yes , at the end of the day we are all here to study . We definitely need a person who can relate to books.
• A clever / wise characters , once you 're done with the clique formation , there is always a need for the person who can handle all the different headed personalities go together ! Find a way out of the egos .

So a clique is formed in a month or too with a lot of speculations ...

1.  A really loud character
2. A shy one
3. A calm lass
4. A take it easy dude
5. An eye candy
6. Mr. Handsome / Miss Beautiful
7. A really clever character
8. Mr/Miss Bookworm

Hmm... So whats next ? More like after an institution is established there is always a need for some amendments , principles, rules and regulations. So the cliques today are not far behind .

• A Station - A place to meet up in the recess , lunch , or without reason . This may constitute any damn corner , or if they are P.D.A .( Public display of emotion ) type of people it would be in midst of the campus.

More to be updated soon ...

Time with people

Hey readers!
We live for a span
We have 365 days a year
50 odd weeks
Thousand of hours to deal with
Then we have some 50 odd people usually around
And yes 24 hours a day
out of which if you have all life processes going normal
then you will be sleeping 5-8 hours a day
Then 2-3 for the ESSENTIALS  like eating and all personal stuff
you 'll be left with 12 hours a day
Then if you are employed or a student
then 6 hours a day you can do nothing
but listen to your teacher or employer
and talk to your colleague in midst of it .
you can have 3-4 colleagues of such sought
Then while travelling you are more likely to talk to 2-3 people along
Then family , 4 members atleast?
Oh how could I forget the media ?
One can communicate with millions
by means of youtube, blog , facebook , twitter etc?
Then??? Whatsay?

Singledom

Being single is so free,
So lovely,
and
So lucky…that it has its own charm!
Do not rush in to getting married.. or even committed.
Even if folks and peers ask you,
Just tell them,
Everything has its own charm ...
You can't always smile when you are paired up or in a relationship.
Every lust has its own expiry date.
you see
Don't give up a thing just because you are bored up or lonely , the world and life has millions of things to engage you ...
Talk , read , blog , dance , counsel , go crafting , designing ... or just listen ?
Their are millions who just want people to listen to me, but its speak n speak n tell era...
Boredom and loneliness is only when you are jobless, out of something materialistic.
P.S. no break up or makeup story , just an opinion.
ENJOY SINGLEDOM!
Regards
have a nice day

Professionalism

Hello !

Topic for today - Does profession come in between your hobbies and interests ?

The other day I had a random discussion with my friend , the discussion was about a blog. I went on saying that a blogger from Pakistan whose blog I didnt like much .She was more diplomatic and thats how a blogger should be . But then I felt that once you begin to bother about diplomacy you egin to loose your spirit , your freedom to communicate . We live in a world where we have a right to speech , a right to bring up an opinion. Well, all this stuff aside. She was very regular when it came to blogging.My buddy justified her being an arts student a reason for her diplomacy and regularity .

Because students from non professional courses are left with more time at the end of the day to spend to write , to talk , to enjoy , to move about . Well , this is no justifiation actually . But , the society has got an outlook that people in professional courses are ALWAYS studying , working .

This generation I think is ultra swift to go multi tasking ! We sing , we dance  , we work , we cook , we chat , fb , tweet , blog, move around , rest and yes a day before the exam study to an extent that we are into inventing things that were only thought to be existing in the universe . Discovering various aspects of life in a quite unconventional way though .

At the end of the day professionalism to the maximum drags your OTHER activities and interest by 10 % . Well , thats what "I" think!